We make hundreds of decisions everyday – most of the time without thinking too much about it. But every now and then those BIG decisions come along and stare us in the face. The ones that can influence the rest of our lives. It’s these types of decisions that come with stress, anxiety – even heartbreak – and often major procrastination or avoidance altogether.
Here are three questions to ask yourself when making those BIG ones:
- What does the bible say?
- The bible is life’s best instruction book on thousands of topics and with the internet, can be accessed and researched more conveniently than ever before (hi, Google). What’s better than God’s guidance according to His purpose for your life?
- Is it good for me?
- I know it sounds simple, but asking yourself if a decision is ultimately what’s best for you is very telling. Does it have the potential to hurt you? By your decision, are you taking the easy path or one that’s more work and takes longer, but ultimately better for you in the long run?
- Would I want people to know?
- It’s a red flag if you wouldn’t want anyone to know about your decision because you’d feel ashamed or embarrassed. That’s a sign you’re uncomfortable and it’s probably not the best decision to make.
Talk it out with someone you trust; preferably someone who won’t rush to give advice, but a good listener who will allow you to walk through pros and cons thoughtfully and thoroughly. It’s amazing how just thinking out loud can shed light on your decision.
Inspired by a sermon by Rick Warren; photo of mountains in Israel near the Dead Sea
Dear Son 