Now that you’re married, Jack, this will be the last time I tell you what to do… [Do you believe that? It’s true]

Cherish your wife, Jack. A wedding is publicly committing to marriage before family and friends, and before God. But truly cherishing is unseen and in your heart and something Bridget will feel and know if you:

-Listen to her – hear her words and take them to heart

-Encourage her and adopt her desires, hopes and dreams as your own.

-Set your goals with her in mind

-Never miss an opportunity to lighten her load

-Tell her and show her your appreciation for even the smallest things

-Treat her like the sweet soul she is who is deeply and thoroughly loved by God.

I tell you this because your first day as a married couple won’t be the most important day. The most important day—I pray, the most glorious day in your marriage—will be your last day together on this earth. I want you to be holding hands with Bridget thinking about your happiest moments, about all the challenges you overcame that made you stronger. I want you to look back on your wedding day and also the amazing life you built together.

If you do these things, my wish for you and Bridget will come true… that you grow old on one pillow.